Uncertainty as the Human Condition (Part 2)
"The quest for certainty blocks the
search for meaning. Uncertainty is the
very condition to compel man to unfold his powers."
--Erich
Fromm, social psychologist
Margaret J. Wheatley, management expert, had this to say
about the effect of uncertainty on leadership and global politics: “I’m sad to
report that in the past few years, ever since uncertainty became our insistent
21st century companion, leadership has taken a great leap backwards
to the familiar territory of command and control.”
Uncertainty means never having perfect information, or even
anything approaching the information we want to be sure of in making decisions,
especially those with long-term outcomes.
The disturbing truth about our choices is that we can never be sure we
made the right one, or even a decent one. And so, of course, our ability to learn from
competing options is quite limited. Choices move around a flow chart, each new
one dependent on previous choices. There may have been a much better field of options
for any given choice, but what will ever remain unclear is whether, given the limited
facts available about the choice, we chose the right ones to pay attention to. At the same time, we also may be ignoring an
entire set that was never even allowed into our line of sight.
Businesses hate uncertainty and would rather take no action
and make no investments in the face of it. A current example is the tariff
mandates by the President, which change with each diplomatic negotiation. No one knows how to price inputs and
outputs. No responsible manager can
commit themselves to any kind of plan, even the briefest of holding actions,
except for the default plan, which is inaction.
This uncertainty response gives the tariff initiative power to paralyze the
entire economy. This is one outcome, management
expert Wheatley reports, of the fact that uncertainty has boosted leadership of
the command-and control kind, which gives the illusion of assurance of
knowledge, safety, and protection in unsure times. In fact, its main outcome is more
uncertainty.
We routinely rely on old information, bad assumptions, partial
truths, or information that proves us right (confirmation bias), or on no
research at all, but simply habits buried in time or custom or groupthink. In addition, life doesn’t often give us the
ability to do scientific research on our own beliefs and behavior. There is no way to compare options not
taken--because we can’t create a control that compares choices evenly based on lived
experience—whether our choice of College A versus College B, of spouse A or B, or
career choices, has delivered the better result. We would need to live multiple lives to make
this comparison work.
This is why, when a family friend asked me if I believed in
the perfect soulmate being out there somewhere for each of us, I couldn’t give
her an answer. Her own husband, who she
thought was so perfect, was her model for the ideal match. But this wonderful guy could have been down
the list of best choices—I didn’t want to break that news to her. There is no way to show that she made the
perfect or even best choice; there are just too many alternatives around. However, she is forever certain that there was
no other choice, that he was “the one” (especially now he’s deceased). Unprovable, but likely to hold the key to much
happiness. All I could say was, “This is
a more complex question than it appears.”
She was puzzled that I didn’t immediately agree with her romantic beliefs—and
maybe thought I had given up on the game myself or had a shocking lack of beautiful
ideals to live by.
Somehow every person must learn to live with the curse humans
have always lived under: lack of
complete information, unsure outcomes for any situation, and the universality
of the laws of change. This is why the habitual
college admissions prompt, “Describe a challenge you faced, what decision you
had to make, and what you learned from it,” is such a thorny one to figure
out. We just have to take the track of
the novelist and create an arc with an internal theme that seems logical or
shows the logic of emotions. The person
who made the decision is also then a person changed by acting on that choice--
and so has a problem with objectively analyzing the outcome.
We become instantly attached to decisions we have already
made, so that we can’t evaluate them with any objective fairness. Therefore not
much can be learned from them—because the overtly successful ones don’t have
much to tell us. Mistakes and bad calls carry more intelligence. So we learn
little from success, an eternal conundrum that must be lived with in every
moment. While our future is a touchstone
of hope, it is at the same time the wellspring of all our fears and the core of
anxiety gnawing away at that hope.